Or we could say , in playing a game there are a few outcomes, winning, losing, losing and having fun, deliberately losing just so that others have fun of winning, win or lise it dont matter we had fun and is all that counts..
Oh mind games.. then i would say..let them win i would not want to take part in mind games, let them play on their own. My peace of mind us more valueable.
So true. I love playing games but I seriously will not play with anyone that has to win at all costs! It’s called “playing” and it’s supposed to be fun.
Personally, I’ve never really been too bothered about losing when playing a game, but standing on the sidelines, and not taking the opportunity to play the game at all – win or lose – well…This just don’t sit well with me. Nope!💥
AS we all eventually learn with narcissists, the only way to win the game, is not to play.
Being able to walk away and say “Ok you win”, is an important self-preservation tool sometimes.
Can we PLEASE pass this message on to the American school systems who believe every child should earn nothing less then a “C” or receive an award for just showing up
Gawd, yes! Some people think “winning” is the only one. Thank you for this!
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Well said!
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Thank you 😊!!
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Or we could say , in playing a game there are a few outcomes, winning, losing, losing and having fun, deliberately losing just so that others have fun of winning, win or lise it dont matter we had fun and is all that counts..
Just a few thoughts
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Those are great thoughts! Thank you 😊!
I was thinking more of mind games…
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Oh mind games.. then i would say..let them win i would not want to take part in mind games, let them play on their own. My peace of mind us more valueable.
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Totally agreed!
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Why isn’t winning???
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And to think life is a game…play every match with passion which is the real win 🙂
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Great analogy! 🤗🤗🤗
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So true. I love playing games but I seriously will not play with anyone that has to win at all costs! It’s called “playing” and it’s supposed to be fun.
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The best thing is to play to have fun. There are no winners or losers.
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I am a sucker for games and playing… here I was thinking more of mind games…
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Well said!🙌
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Thank you 😊!
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Bon jour,
Il y a une expression qui dit : ” qui perd gagne”. 🙂
Max-Louis
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Personally, I’ve never really been too bothered about losing when playing a game, but standing on the sidelines, and not taking the opportunity to play the game at all – win or lose – well…This just don’t sit well with me. Nope!💥
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I do appreciate your thoughts!
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I appreciate your inspiring me with something to have expanded thought about. Thank you. Good on you!👏🏾
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Thank you 😊 dearest! 🤗🤗🤗
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AS we all eventually learn with narcissists, the only way to win the game, is not to play.
Being able to walk away and say “Ok you win”, is an important self-preservation tool sometimes.
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Perfectly said! You got exactly my point… thank you 😊!
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I mind walking away from battles a lot less lately now I realise. I am not really surrendering, often I am just getting out of God’s way.
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That’s more or less what happens to me…. aging brings wisdom….
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Can we PLEASE pass this message on to the American school systems who believe every child should earn nothing less then a “C” or receive an award for just showing up
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If only…
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we must remain hopeful…
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True
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