Hmm, wouldn’t one have to be willing to learn in order to learn? At least, that’s how I view. It’s easier for us to learn with love, less easy to learn with pain, but in both–we’ve gotta be willing.
I guess I’m always hoping that you’ll end this reign
But it’s my destiny to be the king of pain
King of pain
King of pain, king of pain, I always be king of pain
The Police
Very true – pain does so many other things as well. Some not so good. I prefer to learn by Love, but pain is always there to remind us that we are human and vulnerable.
I think it depends. I have learnt from both love and pain. On the other hand they have also made me not learn because love babied and spoiled me while pain made me resistant to learning anything from an experience.
Especially if we’re willing to learn.
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I think that love teaches when we’re willing to learn and pain when we’re not…
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Hmm, wouldn’t one have to be willing to learn in order to learn? At least, that’s how I view. It’s easier for us to learn with love, less easy to learn with pain, but in both–we’ve gotta be willing.
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Sure!
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It is. The only.
I love peaches.
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It hurts so much. 😀
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Не для всех.
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Very true, fully agree! 🙂
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Thank you for stopping by dearest!
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Sure⚘⚘⚘
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I guess I’m always hoping that you’ll end this reign
But it’s my destiny to be the king of pain
King of pain
King of pain, king of pain, I always be king of pain
The Police
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👍👍👍👍
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Very true
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Hey! It’s been a long time! How are you?
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True….especially heart break
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Kind of love and pain together? 😉😄
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Yeah..absolutely…you loved no one….??!!
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Indeed!
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Just like you need absence to value presence.
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To be honest I value presence in presence…
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Reblogged this on lampmagician.
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And the obstacles that stand in the way of learning from either, stupidity and hatred, seem to be linked, no?
Pain stimulates testosterone and cortisol.
Love, oxytocin and serotonin.
The first pair has origins in primitive brain parts, hard wired.
The second? From elevated brain processes.
“Love hurts, Love scars, Love wounds and marks” — Nazareth.
Regardless, as an aphorism, it rocks.
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I do value and appreciate your detailed and wise contribution! Thank you! You rock! 😄
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yes. 🙂 Suffering confers Depth.
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And forces us to consider those sides that we were still unwilling to see …
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sometimes….
kiss
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I badly want to make a joke about leather, whips, and ropes. I won’t, I promise!
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😱
😉😂😂😂
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🙂
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Very true – pain does so many other things as well. Some not so good. I prefer to learn by Love, but pain is always there to remind us that we are human and vulnerable.
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I prefer to learn the soft way too 😄😄
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Generally a short sharp lesson!
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Exactly!
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Indeed.
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So True. Been there and back.
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But…. only love can heal the pain 💙
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I have experienced and administered deep emotional pain. But love will always overcome it.
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Sometimes pain is love. And that pain cuts much deeper.
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Bitter Wound & Sweet Bite teaches a lot.
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I agree 👌💯… Pain is a much better teacher
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We remember the painful lessons better as we do not want to experience the pain again.
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I think it depends. I have learnt from both love and pain. On the other hand they have also made me not learn because love babied and spoiled me while pain made me resistant to learning anything from an experience.
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And sometimes love becomes ever so painful
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Exactly
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Unfortunate, but true. Hopefully, we bounce back enough to learn from it.
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Reality
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Through our pain we teach love the balance of both. I really liked this a lot. 🙂
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Agreed and always the case.
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Thanks for reading!
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My pleasure.
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