I think we also fall out of love because we don’t realize (or we’re simply unwilling) to put the effort in to support the needs and wants of each other. We tend to lose focus on the importance and relevance of the relationship and begin to experience increasing bitterness and resentment. We concern ourselves with “who’s right” and who’s wrong” rather than seeking solutions that satisfy both individual’s needs through acceptable compromises. Relationships are difficult…but so are most things in life that are worthwhile!
I’ve always been a person who see’s personality first. I never really cared about beauty outside because the reality and realism to it, personality is the beauty that shows who people truly are. I’m not shallow like other people are. It’s sad that people today go by looks rather than personality. In my experience throughout many years and seeing that happen today unfortunately. Love your message.
We are unwilling when the other part won’t meet us half way. When they stop trying. If we are trying and are the only part involved in the relationship, at some point, love dies. It takes two to tango. If you are drawn to someone, take the time to know them well before committing. Openly see their ups and downs, good and bad…then decide if you can continue the relationship. Saves a lot of tears later!
” we fall out when we run out of willingness and then aspire for what we had before …” Verry well expressed ..I don’t know if you will like the addition ….
True!
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So real!
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Thank you for reading!
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True
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Interesting π
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Youβre welcome
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So true
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Perfect
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I read these to my wife every day. She said WOW on this one. π
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I am so honoured… now, I say WOW!
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A distorted reflection of ourselves
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… somehow..
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I think we also fall out of love because we don’t realize (or we’re simply unwilling) to put the effort in to support the needs and wants of each other. We tend to lose focus on the importance and relevance of the relationship and begin to experience increasing bitterness and resentment. We concern ourselves with “who’s right” and who’s wrong” rather than seeking solutions that satisfy both individual’s needs through acceptable compromises. Relationships are difficult…but so are most things in life that are worthwhile!
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Good point…
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yep
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Or remove our rose tinted glasses!
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Right! ππ
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Completely true.
I’ve always been a person who see’s personality first. I never really cared about beauty outside because the reality and realism to it, personality is the beauty that shows who people truly are. I’m not shallow like other people are. It’s sad that people today go by looks rather than personality. In my experience throughout many years and seeing that happen today unfortunately. Love your message.
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… I didnβt really refer to looks… but itβs true that often people get infatuated after that…
I think itβs the whole package..
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I know it didn’t refer to looks…but through the layers of your write. I felt something that also touches on the matter of looks vs personality.
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Thank you for reading so deeply π€π€π€
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You’re welcome, B. I pay close attention to details in writing and their meaning. π
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We are unwilling when the other part won’t meet us half way. When they stop trying. If we are trying and are the only part involved in the relationship, at some point, love dies. It takes two to tango. If you are drawn to someone, take the time to know them well before committing. Openly see their ups and downs, good and bad…then decide if you can continue the relationship. Saves a lot of tears later!
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Ah, deep and so damn true!
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Thankk you for stoppyng by and contributing!
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Lovely, thanks, B., you are my enlightenment. π
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Thank you!
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This is so true
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sweet & true π
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Thank you dearest πΉ
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” we fall out when we run out of willingness and then aspire for what we had before …” Verry well expressed ..I don’t know if you will like the addition ….
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I am honoured and flattered that you like my blog ! π
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Hi! Thank you for stopping by π€π€
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Your welcome …..Nice work …..
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Amen to that
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