I sure as hell don’t have a problem giving my opinion when someone asks for it, LOL… It took me many years before I valued my own opinion on things. Self-doubt is a killer.
That’s why what matters is that we Think (not what we say) “it’s irrelevant”… think of this: does it change you or your life or anything about it, someone’s opinion about you ?
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…. now I have to go deep in thought…. A very interesting question that I don’t have a direct answers to… It does and it doesn’t… need more time to think… I will be back with an answer…
I basically wrote a whole blog post and then I came to the conclusion that I had the moment I read your post… Damn she is good…We really shouldn’t let opinion change who we are or what we say…
Letting one or two guide us though isn’t the same as completely bowing down to popular or unpopular opinion… I think as writers we have to keep an open mind in order to grow… Not everyone is going to think like we do… it is what makes us special…and in someways maybe the way we think is wrong to a certain degree… like 5 degrees…
Agreed!
We all need inspiration. And it’s very revealing that you’re talking about “guides”. People who inspire us to improve, to challenge ourselves. This is definitely NOT the same as bending to anyone’s opinion (which is actually impossible and doom us to frustration).
Thank you so much for the time you dedicate to deepening my ideas with your thoughts… 🤗🤗🤗
GOOD afternoon
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Good afternoon to you! Just got up here!
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So true,And just because of this fear they undervalue what they are..
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Exactly! And most of the time, low profile people are the most sensitive and skilled… but they just don’t believe in that.
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Totally agree with you.
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Agree.. 🙂
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The essence of insecurity……..in witch every once in a while we all stumble …….I’m afraid🙄
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Your typo (witch) is quite interesting as I think that insecurity comes somehow from a bad spell on someone’s personality…
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😱this autocorrection is killing me…..but you got what I meant……sure not I’m playing you are a witch😂😂😂😂
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I thought it was brilliant actually as it opened the way for a further thought…
So welcome the autofill for once..! 😉😄😄😄😄😂😂😂
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👍🏻😂😘
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Good evening,
Very true
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Good evening to you! And thank you for stopping by! 🤗
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Good evening,
My pleasure to be connected with you.
Reema 🎈
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well articulated.
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Thank you!
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I sure as hell don’t have a problem giving my opinion when someone asks for it, LOL… It took me many years before I valued my own opinion on things. Self-doubt is a killer.
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Exactly! Doubting about our own worth is exactly what kills it… thank you for your valued and valuable contribution! 🤗
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Omg! I love this and you for writing it ❤️
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Thank you ! For both! 🤗🌹
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Very well said
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Opinions can be pretty scary…. They mold and shape our behavior.. Even if we say we don’t care…
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That’s why what matters is that we Think (not what we say) “it’s irrelevant”… think of this: does it change you or your life or anything about it, someone’s opinion about you ?
🤗
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…. now I have to go deep in thought…. A very interesting question that I don’t have a direct answers to… It does and it doesn’t… need more time to think… I will be back with an answer…
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Thank you for taking this time to think and talk it through 🤗
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I basically wrote a whole blog post and then I came to the conclusion that I had the moment I read your post… Damn she is good…We really shouldn’t let opinion change who we are or what we say…
Letting one or two guide us though isn’t the same as completely bowing down to popular or unpopular opinion… I think as writers we have to keep an open mind in order to grow… Not everyone is going to think like we do… it is what makes us special…and in someways maybe the way we think is wrong to a certain degree… like 5 degrees…
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Agreed!
We all need inspiration. And it’s very revealing that you’re talking about “guides”. People who inspire us to improve, to challenge ourselves. This is definitely NOT the same as bending to anyone’s opinion (which is actually impossible and doom us to frustration).
Thank you so much for the time you dedicate to deepening my ideas with your thoughts… 🤗🤗🤗
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You writing great quotes. Keep it up dear 😊😊😊👌👌👌
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Thank you! I will !
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